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Introduction A new form of online dating is becoming popular in which one downlo an app that helps one locate nearby people looking for dates. One such app called Tinder is beginning to receive a lot of attention due to its popularity and the ease with which one can make judgments based on appearance alone. The user then sees profiles of their potential nearby romantic monroe mi escorts one at a time.

They either indicate a positive or negative response. If the person the partner just provided a positive response to had ly given the user a positive response, casuak the app offers the user the opportunity looking send text messages via the app to that caasual. Spira describes some as using the app for finding romantic partners, potentially for long-term relationships.

But others are reported to use the app as a game the way they might play any other game they download to their smartphone. Glantz reports concerns that the app focuses too much on appearance instead of interpersonal compatibility. Despite the casual popularity of these dating apps, little scholarly attention has been brought for bear on these kinds of apps.

Some looking studies focusing on Grindr, a similar dating app for men interested in men, have focused on the kinds of self-presentation tactics users casula on the apps Birnholtz, et al. Why do they use it? How do they decide to escorte dorion people? This report will explore these questions via a survey of users and non-users of these apps. This work is important theoretically and practically.

Theoretically, these apps represent a continuation of a trend towards dating via choosing from many alternative partners. Before Internet dating, people chose their mates from the available pool of people they met via school, work, or experimental circles. They generally met them one at a time. Even speed dating sessions would only expose them to a few dozen people at a time. With Internet dating, people can browse through photos and detailed profiles of as many people as they wish.

With dating apps, they can simply skim through photos and reject anyone deemed insufficiently attractive with a simple swipe of their thumb across a screen.

The trend is toward higher and higher volume of choices, made more and more quickly. It is important to understand both what kind of people are choosing to date this way and what effects that might have on their behavior. On a practical level, these apps may enable increased access to casual sex. Casual sex, especially among young people, can often be risky sex without condoms Buhi, et al.

If such apps are contributing to causal sex, it would be worth knowing. It is also possible that people are diana rose model those they meet on the app without precautions such as meeting in public, due how geographically close the users are to each other. This paper will first propose a variety of personality traits that may be associated with using dating apps and using them in particular ways.

Then the ways people use it will be examined.

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Finally, the precautions people take eexperimental do not take will be discussed. Then a study deed to begin answering these questions will be described and its reported.

Who might be using dating apps This study will investigate three kinds of personality traits that might predict who uses dating apps and how they use them: sociability, impulsiveness, and interest in varied sexual partners. Initially, Zuckerman described sociability as a stable personality trait that is indicated by the extent to which the individual enjoys interacting with as many people as possible.

Dating apps offer a means of interact with many people. They are only limited by the range of people they are willing to provide a positive indication for on the app. Additionally, the speed with which one can meet people and interact with them may attract a different personality type. Given the ability to restrict the people displayed to those within close proximity, one could casual meet someone on the app and then physically interact with that person within minutes.

That quick gratification might appeal to two types of related personality traits: impulsivity Patton, et al. Impulsiveness, as a trait, was initially conceptualized by Barratt in an effort to understand difficulty with learning tasks. The initial scale has been developed to cover a general tendency towards making quick decisions and focusing only on the present Patton, et al.

Impulsive people may be experimental to dating apps due to the speed with which they can rate people. Impulsiveness has been linked to a variety of risky behaviors Stanford, et al. The conceptually similar trait, sensation seeking, may also be related to using dating apps. Such people may be drawn to for apps to provide a steady stream of novel people and experiences. Zuckerman reports that the trait is generally associated with risky behavior and particularly risky sex.

Using an app that focuses vlondon escorts appearance, and enabling one to quickly and easily meet people who are attractive, may also be associated with traits delhi escorts free classifieds add sites with a looking interest in sex.

Kalichman, et al.

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If dating apps provide an outlet for impulsively seeking a romantic partner, using these apps may only be associated with impulsiveness of sexual sensation seeking. If the impulsiveness is not directed at finding long-term partners but causal sexual encounters, it seems partndr that sexual sensation seeking will be a stronger predictor of dating app use.

If so, then app users might be people of concern as sexual sensation seeking is also associated with a greater likelihood of risky sex Kalichman, et al.

Along similar lines, sociosexual orientation was conceptualized as the extent to which someone has a restricted or unrestricted orientation towards sexual activity Gangestad and Simpson, cornwall escort latin Someone expressing a restricted orientation will only engage in sexual activity in a stable and committed relationship. Someone with an unrestricted orientation, on the other hand, is willing to have sex fairly quickly upon meeting a desirable partner.

They conceptualize the variable as a continuous one, albeit one with a bimodal distribution. If possessing a more unrestricted orientation is associated with app use, it would suggest that the move towards quicker and more photo-based matchmaking is more likely to be used by people who wish atl escort use such apps for casual sex, rather than finding long-term partners. Goals, dating, and micro-dating goals Researchers of first dates have identified several interpersonal goals that people pursue during first dates Mongeau, et al.

These goals can be organized around four main — interpersonal relationships; sexual activity; entertainment and having fun; and, increased social status. Relational goals include objectives such as seeking love, establishing a meaningful relationships, or even identifying a potential spouse Clark, et al.

Understanding confounding variables

Sexual goals include advancing physical affection including kissing, hand holding, and intercourse Clark, et al. Entertainment goals include dating simply for recreation or to have fun, casuall seeking companionship for engaging in entertaining activities Clark, et al. Status goals include impressing others or increasing social status by dating an attractive other Roscoe, et al.

It should be noted that people can and do pursue multiple goals at once and there can be some overlap between i. In some ways, micro-dating through smartphone applications resemble the context of a first date. People present a preferred version of self in order amour escorts denton pursue one or more of the goals implicit within the first date context. Thus, micro-daters may ascribe to similar goals as daters in face-to-face contexts.

The most obvious reason that people might use micro-dating apps is because they are looking for someone to date and with whom they might possibly pursue a romantic relationship. That motive may be the strongest motivation for using the app more frequently and sending messages on micro-dating apps more frequently. Popular s suggest reno america granny seeking the dating goal of entertainment may be an important one for micro-dating app users Spira, Some users may simply treat the app as a game and never intend to meet anyone face-to-face on the app.

What's up with all these couples out here on my dating apps?

They simply rate people and perhaps chat with people experimenttal they are bored and see the app as a way to kill time. This behavior would expfrimental similar to communicative behavior in other online contexts. Research on Facebook uses suggests that even though the ostensible reason bareback burbank escort Facebook is to interact with people, one of the reasons people use Facebook is for entertainment rather than to fill a social need Park, et al.

Such an entertainment motivation to use dating apps may be associated with using it, but that motivation would be likely to be negatively associated with the frequency with which they actually meet people. For example, the heavy focus on physical experimenral may facilitate an environment where sexual goals are more salient to daters. College men may be more likely to experience hook-ups Lambert, et al.

Why are so many couples using tinder to find a threesome?

Micro-dating apps represent an intersection between first dates and hook-up cultures. In first date situations, male college students were more likely to mention sex as a goal Mongeau, et al. In addition, men are more likely to ascribe sexual goals to dating partners Henningsen, et al. Meeting people face-to-face Another area of concern concerns how single housewives seeking orgasm lawton choose to meet face-to-face.

Ideally, they would meet in a public place at least for the first time, for added safety. A less safe option would be to meet in the home of the person they met on a dating app. Study overview This study sought to survey both users and non-users of dating apps to begin exploring who uses dating apps, why they use them, and how they meet face-to-face.

In order to examine these issues a survey experimsntal constructed and fielded that included measures concerning dating app use and personality traits. Method Participants The sample was recruited from an undergraduate participant pool at a medium-sized American university in the Midwest and from a snowball sample obtained by posting a survey request on Facebook.

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Two hundred and seven individuals were from the student sample and 23 were from the snowball sample. There were participants women, 83 men, four cxsual not to answer. Their sexual orientation was assessed with a seven-point scale ranging from one-homosexual to seven-heterosexual. There were 14 participants who responded with a below four, four at four, and above four.

Nine either did not answer or chose to self-describe. Their average age was Procedure The participants who chose to follow the offered link to the survey first viewed an informed consent form. If they agreed, the survey questions were displayed. They were first asked about their use of dating apps. Those who had such an app were then about how they used the apps and how they would be willing to meet people face-to-face.

Everyone then responded to the personality measures.

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Demographics were requested last. Measures The means, standard deviations, and when appropriate, the reliability estimates of the continuous variables are shown in Table 1. To calculate scores on multi-item measures, averages of the items were used for composite measures. The participants first indicated if they had a dating app installed on a smartphone or tablet Table 1: Means, standard deviations, and reliability estimates.